On Mustaches and Being Authentic. [Sundin Photography. San Diego Candid Family Photography.]
Chrystal was vulnerable and authentic in front of a group of girls on the night I needed someone to be vulnerable and authentic. Have you ever had one of those moments? I wouldn’t call it coincidence. After that night we became fast friends; we have the kind of friendship that comes easy, but doesn’t lack deepness for the amount of ease. So when Chrystal asked me to capture her family, it goes without saying that I was excited beyond words.
I have never been one to want to make your family look “perfect”….for I have yet to meet a family that carries such a title. To me families are about love and about connection. That is what I love to capture. And beauty to me is more than a pretty face or a perfect set of teeth or a glowing smile with the most fashionable outfit. Beauty to me is in the things that make you, well, YOU. It is in the way she tucks her hair behind her ear, the way she looks so inquisitive when she is trying to figure out the answer to a question, the way he will only stop for a quick snuggle before going on to climb the next mountain, or the way any child looks when they laugh at their daddy’s jokes. So that is why I would rather capture your laugh than your smile; every time, every shoot. I strive to capture the authentic you, the person that makes you, YOU. Whether that authenticity is shy, or strong, or sweet, or silly, or tender, it doesn’t matter to me, as long as it is all you.
This is why I was so excited to capture Chrystal and her family. Chrystal and I began with authentic; we started our relationship with the real, so I knew that Chrystal would be the type of person who would want capture her family the same way: capturing the THEM that makes them THEM. And I am so happy to share that the “T” family didn’t let me down. They brought them: all their beauty, silliness, tenderness, passion and strength.
Chrystal even said to me about half way through the photo shoot, “If they cry, will you take a picture? I love capturing all that is them right now.” Now THAT is what I am talking about. [But I am happy to share: this was a photo shoot with no tears...and a lot of laughter...]
Meet the “T” family.

Being one of many sisters myself, I can truly appreciate how each girl is so different…and how each sister also has the power to make other crack up. How I adore sisters….

We had another little “member” join our shoot for a bit…it was so fun to see these girls pick up the little guy with no fear…and let the giggles and screams flow freely.

One of the things that Chrystal has said many times about her family is how much she loves their silliness and joy. She was SO right! These little girls had me in stitches for so much of the shoot! [This next shot is them all pretending to be tigers in the brush.]


And knowing about their silly side, I was inspired to bring mustaches….and they didn’t hesitate to play along:

I don’t do black and white all too often, but I am just loving this last set of photos in black and white. First, what I call the “for grandma and grandpa family portrait”:

Then comes the more authentic portraits….cause isn’t this more what our lives are really like?

And ending it off with my favorite shot of the day. I wish all family portraits were like this:

“T” family, thanks so much for everything! I can’t tell you how much I loved spending the morning with you and coming home with my sides aching from laughing!












